tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22555511466961964252024-02-20T19:03:24.635-08:00Some Ordinary ReadersHtD: The Employment YearsSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.comBlogger114125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-91839172372935585082015-04-04T19:37:00.000-07:002015-04-04T19:37:48.409-07:00Resurrection Cupcakes.Okay, yeah, I'm not sure it works, either.<br />
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But whenever I looked for Easter cupcakes on the Internet, all I got were eggs and chicks and green-tinted icing.<br />
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And that's not what I mean by Easter. And I thought that maybe the whole celebrating-the-resurrection-with-cutesy-cupcakes thing was probably a bad idea. But I kept trying.<br />
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I tried googling "resurrection symbols," which turned up a lot of hits for the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1602003920/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1602003920&linkCode=as2&tag=homeschoothed-20&linkId=RKX7562VYDKF6ZWC" target="_blank">Resurrection Eggs</a> thing, which involves putting symbols of both the Passion and the Resurrection in plastic eggs, with, I guess, the idea that they actually could then be Easter eggs.<br />
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And I liked that idea, and a lot of the symbols seemed like things even I could turn into cupcake decorations.<br />
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But then I thought that cupcakes with torture devices on them were, you know, not quite it, either. I didn't really want crucifixion cupcakes. I wanted Easter cupcakes.<br />
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So I went back to the actual resurrection stories, and came up with a handful of symbols I thought would work:<br />
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An empty tomb, because, duh.<br />
Coins or a money bag, for the bribe for the soldiers (Matthew).<br />
An angel, also duh. (In Mark, he's a young man, but in the other three, one or two angels show up.)<br />
Strips of linen (Luke & John) and a folded headcloth (John).<br />
Broken bread (Luke).<br />
Fish (Luke, and, in a different way, John).<br />
Dove (Holy Spirit, John).<br />
Hand with nail mark (John).<br />
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I was actually planning to try them all. But 1) tummy bug, 2) nearing the end of the semester, and 3) my general sculpting inadequacy.<br />
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So this was the best I could do:<br />
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I've no doubt some of you could take this and make it truly Pinterest-worthy.<br />
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If you could get all eight of the ones I came up with, you could probably make a scripture activity of it--find the story the cupcake applies to, or hide a little scripture verse on the bottom of the cupcake or something.<br />
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But the [our last name] boys, who can't even manage matching socks, will not mind, I think, my rudimentary success.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-83161281145167575232015-03-27T09:23:00.000-07:002015-03-27T13:49:15.306-07:00Vampires and VaccinationsEula Biss's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1555976891/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1555976891&linkCode=as2&tag=homesthedocto-20&linkId=BU7X3U7YM4FMV4LH" target="_blank"><i>On Immunity</i></a> is an interesting book, and one not easily categorized.<br />
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Part medical journalism, part cultural theory, part literary criticism, part memoir, it reflects on the historical, socio-economic, and moral forces that shape the conversation around vaccination and public health.<br />
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Though the author is clearly and straightforwardly pro-vaccination (and pro-required-vaccinations), she does not caricature or castigate those with whom she disagrees. She tries to explain, if not entirely without critique then at least without rancor, what sense anti-vaccination movements might be trying to make.<br />
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She accounts for fears that are more subtle (and less easy to disprove) than the fear of autism (which is the only anti-vax fear that gets much play time in public discourse). Most of these fears seem more morally pernicious than the autism-fear. While the autism-fear springs from a garden variety distrust of government, energized by an apparently spurious "scientific" finding, these more subtle fears seem to spring from some combination of racial, gender, socioeconomic, and xenophobic impulses.<br />
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They're fears that find interestingly medical expression in, for example, Bram Stoker's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1503261387/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1503261387&linkCode=as2&tag=homeschoothed-20&linkId=TSVOATS7MALFVU2E" target="_blank"><i>Dracula</i></a>. (I'm sure there are other sci-fi and literary works that might also be worthwhile comparisons, but <i>Dracula</i> nicely captures the spirit of the moment. Vampire stories are so trendy, even when they're over a hundred years old.) <br />
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Her interweaving of different discourses (cultural theory, literary criticism, moral philosophy, etc.) is relatively skillful, but I felt at times as if she were dabbling in all of them and allowing none of them sufficient time to say something truly powerful.<br />
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I was intrigued by most of the different threads she was trying to weave together, though. I'm not sure I felt terribly enlightened about vaccinations or about society in general, but I was left really, <i>really</i> wanting to read <i>Dracula.</i>Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-12490490280929112872015-03-02T08:50:00.001-08:002015-03-02T08:51:22.707-08:00What I'm watching.I was looking for a video clip that would help my students understand the concept of the social construction of identity, and I chanced across this Colbert Report clip featuring Toni Morrison.<br />
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What a beautiful and gentle conversation.<br />
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I love how he is so awed by her presence that he can't even slip into his brash persona until about halfway through.<br />
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I love how gently she offers insights that could have been shouted accusingly--she invites us into a better world rather than castigating us for not being there already.<br />
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I love how her soft, lyrical, powerful voice calls forth an answering delicacy in his. Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-43471405880058094672015-02-18T13:49:00.002-08:002015-02-18T13:49:24.357-08:00Body SculptureOne should never think too terribly hard about motivational sayings, posters, or images, but a striking comparison presented itself to me today, and I could not avoid having thoughts.<br />
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(I do try, sometimes, to avoid thoughts. Especially the inconvenient ones.)<br />
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A few months ago, a few different friends of mine shared the following:<br />
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I do not know the source of the image: who created it, for what purpose, or who owns the copyright. (If the originator somehow finds this post and speaks up, I'd love to be able to give proper attribution.)<br />
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My friends who shared it had different intentions in doing so and different interpretations of the image. One found it inspirational; another was horrified by it; still another (a "friend" only in the Facebook sense, and not for very long after he shared this) took the opportunity to make fat-people jokes.<br />
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Words in the url on which I found the image offer their own ambiguous interpretation: funny-stone-fat-woman-carving-herself. I know not how to interpret either the words "funny" or "fat." Even "carving" is giving me more trouble than it should.<br />
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I was and am uneasy with the image, although (or perhaps because?) it does seem to represent faithfully a longing that many women have (to re-sculpt their bodies) or an idea many women have of themselves (of a fit, beautiful, self-disciplined, <i>happy</i> woman hidden somewhere inside them).<br />
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I couldn't put my finger on exactly why the image made me uneasy, though, until I tripped across this one, today:<br />
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I think the inspirational quote on the man's image works for either image. Both of them are proclaiming the malleability of the body, and the fitness (pardon the pun) of the project of self-renovation.<br />
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But there's the rub, no?<br />
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The man is not engaged in a project of self-renovation. He is in the midst of self-creation. He takes unformed, undifferentiated matter and makes it into himself. He is a little god in that sense, performing in his own little way the same work that God does in forming man out of the mud of the earth.<br />
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It is a pure and gratuitous act of self-creation: he is powerful and he is free. He is Man. He is a god, a son of the Most High.<br />
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Not so the woman.<br />
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She starts trapped in her own body. The "real" her is thin and beautiful and fit, but this ugly, evil monstrosity (called her body) is imprisoning her.<br />
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She must cut that body away to find the real her inside. She must punish it for its sins so that her real self--the thin, beautiful, fit, <i>happy</i> her--can break free.<br />
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He is free to pursue his project of self-making. She must--<i>must</i>--succeed at it in order be free.<br />
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There is no sharing in the creative work of God here. She is not Eve, mother of the living, blessed with the capacity to make and feed little humans with her very body. She is not even Christ, freely giving her body to be sacrificed for others.<br />
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She is just whittling away at herself, carving her own embodied life into a more controlled--and controllable--form.<br />
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How will she know whether that form is free? Might she not find that that form, too, must be whittled away?<br />
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I'm a fan of caring for one's health through <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUaInS6HIGo" target="_blank">exercise</a> and <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBnniua6-oM" target="_blank">diet</a>. <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wg216KCuXSM" target="_blank">Really</a>. But self-hatred disguised as self-care . . . not so much.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-25151164645420102472015-02-15T10:14:00.000-08:002015-02-15T10:14:00.190-08:00Sweet Little Moral Crusaders<strong>“From 15 to 18 is an age at which one is very sensitive to the
sins of others, as I know from recollections of myself. At that age you
don’t look for what is hidden. It is a sign of maturity not to be
scandalized and to try to find explanations in charity.”</strong><br />
(Flannery O'Connor)<br />
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As an ethics professor, I have long taken my students' capacity to be outraged as a good thing.<br />
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That is to say, I have <i>mistaken</i> my students' capacity to be outraged as a good thing, in far too many ways.<br />
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If they are outraged at an injustice that I present to them, I take it to mean that they care about justice. <br />
I take it to mean that they are paying attention in class.<br />
I take it to mean that I am a good teacher, for eliciting such responses.<br />
I take it to mean that they are maturing as ethical beings.<br />
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This isn't true.<br />
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Or at least it may not be true.<br />
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Moral crusaderism is a stage, just as Flannery O'Connor says it is. (She's not the only one. Sociologists and developmental psychologists agree with her, although I doubt she'd need to know that to feel confident in her own observation.)<br />
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It's a mature stage for a child, but an immature one for an adult. It's not a great stage for a child to be in for very long, especially if it happens to occur at the same stage as the All Authority Is Arbitrary and Evil and RUINING MY LIFE stage. (Alas for parents of teenagers, this happens with some regularity.)<br />
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And it's sort of a bad sign when twenty- to twenty-four-year-olds are
still in it. Freshmen? Sure. They're still children, really. Grad students? Um, no. We are okay with it only because we still expect
twenty-four-year-olds to be children.<br />
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Pragmatically speaking, encouraging students' moral outrage could be a short-term plus; they're more interested in class, class is more lively, they give better evaluations, it makes you look good, you have more fun doing your job.<br />
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I'm less and less convinced that it's a good practice, though, even in the short term. Short term problems: you confirm their pre-existing prejudices, feed their habit of judgmentalism, and strengthen their addiction to the feeling of justifiable anger. All that snippiness may just turn itself around and set its sights on you.<br />
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But it could potentially be a long-term disaster. They cannot reach genuine moral maturity if they're encouraged (by their ethics professor, no less!) to substitute mere outrage for the pursuit of justice. Outrage (especially of the click-to-share-and-raise-awareness variety) is a satisfying emotion, but does little actually to satisfy the demands of justice.<br />
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Far better for their moral maturity for us to prefer the slow, thankless, unfun task of getting them to do hard things--hard, boring, daily, unseen and unrewarded things.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-21281327063477869892015-02-13T05:00:00.000-08:002015-02-13T05:00:08.423-08:00Reading This WeekInteresting proposals afoot in the world of elementary and secondary education: <a href="http://nypost.com/2015/01/21/cuomo-proposes-sweeping-education-reforms/" target="_blank">Cuomo's Plans for School Reform</a>. <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2015/01/27/n-y-teachers-bash-gov-cuomo-your-reform-plans-are-extremely-damaging/" target="_blank">Lots of reasons</a> to be concerned, especially if you're <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2014/04/13/statisticians-slam-popular-teacher-evaluation-method/" target="_blank">a teacher</a>. Or a student.<br />
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Here's the thing, though.<br />
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Until we solve the poverty problem, we are never going to solve the the education problem. Never.<br />
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Yes, incompetent teachers are a problem and should be fired.<br />
Yes, school districts that fail to educate their students are a problem and should be reformed, whether they like it or not.<br />
Yes, wasteful educational programs should be curtailed and eliminated in order to spend money educating students helpfully. (Note to politicians: services for gifted or disabled learners, the arts, and the humanities do not fall under the "wasteful educational programs" rubric. Nor do programs that involve class sizes smaller than 40, students having textbooks, and buildings that are not in imminent danger of collapsing.)<br />
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But teacher incompetence, failing school districts, and wasteful educational spending pale in comparison to the problems generated by the wealth gap in this country.<br />
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They also pale in comparison to the rank injustice of property-tax-funded school districts.<br />
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Solve the poverty problem. Do that first. Then worry about firing teachers and cutting programs. Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-66116670111876131822015-01-01T12:16:00.001-08:002015-01-01T12:17:23.286-08:00Happy New Year!Happy New Year from the [our last name]s, the [my parents' and brother's last name]s, and the [my sister's last name]s!<br />
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"Amos, look at the camera. Isaac, keep your eyes open, and try to do something with your brother's head. Theo could you smile a little less . . . like that?"<br />
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"Does this seem like an improvement to <i>anybody</i>?" <br />
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"Isaac, what are you--"<br />
"Mom, I don't know why you let him hold the--"<br />
"WAAHHH!" <br />
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"Whew. Good catch, bruh."<br />
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"Theo, what kind of photo shoot do you think this is? And can somebody get Amos's tag?"<br />
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Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-1644841469774882452014-12-07T08:28:00.001-08:002014-12-07T08:28:25.875-08:00Second Week of AdventMini-Max wants all y'all Jesus people out there to remember that it's the second week of Advent. He's singing "People Look East" and "Lo He Comes With Clouds Descending," not "Have a Holly Jolly Christmas" or "O Christmas Tree" or "Silent Night." (Definitely not Silent Night. He's only a month and a half old. Nighttime is still snacktime.)<br />
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<br />Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-33003082159627009632014-12-05T07:12:00.000-08:002014-12-05T07:12:26.444-08:00What Professor-Theologian-Moms Do Between Sets of PapersHaving a newborn is fun.<br />
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Teaching is fun.<br />
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Being a theologian is fun.<br />
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Heck, life is fun, even when it's absofrickenlutely crazy.<br />
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And being a theologian at a teaching college while parenting a newborn (and his three older brothers) is a wee bit crazy.<br />
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But it's what you <i>do</i> with the crazy that matters. And this is what professor-theologian-moms do with the crazy:<br />
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<br />Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-67338531415767349742014-11-16T20:04:00.001-08:002014-11-16T20:04:21.645-08:00Kids to Make a Mama ProudDear Moms of all my students:<br />
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This past week, while explaining Philippians to my students, I asked them what they would do if they won half a billion dollars in a lottery. (It was sort of relevant. You'll have to trust me.)<br />
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Everyone that answered said, and I am not making this up, "First I'd drop out of school, then I'd buy a house for my mom, then I'd buy a [insert car/truck here]."<br />
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I didn't know how you'd all feel about the dropping out of school part, but I thought you should know that they all put you above even their Lamborghini/Bugatti/Ducati/whatever.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-51344316200068651532014-11-15T08:15:00.000-08:002014-11-15T08:15:10.579-08:00Missing Item in the Gift ShopI looked all up and down in the [our college] gift shop, and I couldn't find a baby outfit that said, "Baby's First Faculty Meeting.<br />
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So Max wasn't <i>quite</i> as dressed for it as he could have been. But I think he still got a lot out of the experience. <br />
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Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-11186908748958577932014-11-12T13:22:00.000-08:002014-11-12T13:22:09.198-08:00Isn't There A Doctrine About This?I don't object, in principle, to childless people giving me parenting advice.<br />
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One doesn't have to have children to have experience in what good or bad parenting does to children--every adult was once a child himself and is, at least in theory, able to reflect rationally on his childhood experiences and the results of his parents' or caregivers' choices.<br />
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And maybe I just have an unusually kind, thoughtful, wise, and good crop of friends, but most of my single or childless friends who reflect on family matters do a pretty darn good job of it. (It probably doesn't hurt that they're unusually smart, and know enough to pander to a mother's ego by complimenting her children frequently and in great detail. Spoonful of sugar, medicine, etc.)<br />
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So when the young, obviously childfree cashier at the Earth Fare started telling me yesterday about what all children Amos's age were like, and about how I should be feeling about kids that age, and about what he'd be like in a few years, I wasn't predisposed to be offended, simply because she didn't have children of her own.<br />
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But all I could think was, "Oh my gosh, lady, you would not <i>say</i> such things if you had any actual 24/7/365 experience with an actual two-year-old."<br />
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She said, "Oh, I love seeing kids that age in here! They are so innocent! They're just so pure in heart!"<br />
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And she had the nerve to look disturbed when I stared at her, wordlessly aghast. I really couldn't form words to save my life. (I blame Max, by the way. It's hard to come up with snappy rejoinders when all the sleep you're getting comes in two-hour chunks.)<br />
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She started what sounded like a well-rehearsed speech about cherishing these years and enjoying their innocence and purity because "it gets destroyed all too soon in this world!"<br />
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I couldn't stop the snorting that escaped my throat.<br />
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And she started looking more and more disturbed by the second, though she didn't trouble herself to press pause and ask why I so obviously disagreed with her pronouncements.<br />
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I tried to come up with a story that would show her exactly how "innocent" Amos was.<br />
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I tried to come up with the words to describe how he sneaks out of the house at least once a week and tries to start the car. Before we're awake. Despite our trying to hide the keys. And has been for at least a year now.<br />
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I tried to think of how to explain how he taunts his older brother when he is sitting in time out--sitting just out of reach, stretching his toes toward Theo until Theo starts crying "Stop TOUCHING me!!!!" and then jerking his legs back so that he can say, "I not touching Theo! He talking in time out!!"<br />
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I tried to call up coherent sentences with which to relate the time he tried to take away Max's baby blanket, <i>four times</i>, while I sat in the rocking chair in the room. How he tried to come up with convincing arguments. ("But it's <i>mine</i>!" "It's not cold today, Mommy." "He wants <i>another</i> blanket, not my blanket.") And how in the end he just left the room and <i>waited for me to go to the bathroom</i>, and then <i>darted silently into the room, stole the blanket</i>, <b><i>and had it completely hidden in his own room</i></b> before I got back from the bathroom.<br />
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But, again, sleep in two-hour chunks. Words simply would not come.<br />
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After a good twenty seconds of incoherent gutteral noises, I finally looked down at Amos and stuttered out, "Are you innocent, Amos?"<br />
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He looked at her, looked at me, and looked back at her and said, "No, I not. I'm Amos."<br />
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And he was exactly right.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-23194894598890681102014-11-05T05:15:00.001-08:002014-11-05T06:10:38.634-08:00Civil DisobedienceDear Sons:<br />
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If you are <i>ever</i> arrested, it damn well better be for something like this:<br />
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<a href="http://www.local10.com/news/police-charge-90yearold-man-2-pastors-with-feeding-the-homeless/29510268" target="_blank">90-year-old, Two Pastors Arrested For Feeding Homeless</a><br />
Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-86750130523793378292014-10-27T08:00:00.000-07:002014-10-27T12:13:04.652-07:00BruddersAmos, the first day Max was home, peering into Max's crib: "I'm Amos, dat's Mommy, Daddy's inna kitchen, and you're <i>my</i> Baby Max."<br />
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Amos, the second day Max was home, watching me change his outfit: "Oh! He has toes! He so sweet! And he has blue outfit! Tha's sweet."<br />
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Amos, the third day Max was home, after shouting loudly enough to wake him up, shouting into his crib: "I'm sorry for wake you up, Max! I'm sorry! You go back to sleep now!"<br />
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Amos, the fourth day Max was home, discovering his pacifier in his crib: "OH! Max have a blue fire-passy!" (No, I really don't know.) <br />
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Amos, the fifth day Max was home, watching me feed him: "Mommy! He still hungry! You feed him!"<br />
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Amos, today: "Mommy, can we go back to the hospital and put Max back in you tummy?"Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-29624717229656957542014-10-26T14:41:00.003-07:002014-10-26T14:42:02.538-07:00Brudders<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Welcome to the world, Maximus Kenneth Murphy [Our Last Name].<br />
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Max says, "Hi, y'all. 'Scuse me while I rest a bit. It's hard work being born."Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-24858159996986139052014-09-21T16:23:00.002-07:002014-09-21T16:27:40.975-07:00The Line Must Be Drawn Here! This Far, No Further.It comes up almost every time we watch Iron Chef together. He sees something he wants to try, and he asks if we can get some.<br />
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Duck breasts, bone marrow, Mexican chocolate, tomato gelato, black truffles, an ebelskiver pan--there's no end to what Iron Chef can make look cool. <br />
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Usually I'm non-committal. Even about the truffles, I said, "Well, if we can find some and if we have a little extra money in the grocery budget some month."<br />
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But this time, I draw the line.<br />
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"Ooo, that looks cool. Can we get some?"<br />
"No."<br />
"Please?"<br />
"No."<br />
"We've never even tried it."<br />
"No."<br />
"Maybe it's not too expensive."<br />
"No."<br />
"What if we can find it at the store?"<br />
"Absolutely not."<br />
"I'll bet Williams Sonoma has it."<br />
"<i>No.</i>"<br />
"<i>PLEASE?</i>"<br />
"NO."<br />
"We could make ice cream with it!"<br />
"We have an ice cream maker."<br />
"We could make ice cream <i>without having to use the ice cream maker</i>."<br />
"En. Oh. <b>NO</b>."<br />
"Why<i> not?</i>"<br />
"You'll freeze your fingers off. And also, because no."<br />
"I'll be careful."<br />
"THEO. I am NOT BUYING LIQUID NITROGEN.<i> No. No, no. <b>NO.</b></i>"<br />
"Hmph. I'll bet Mimi will buy it for me."<br />
"Good luck."Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-13881940814327411632014-09-17T09:44:00.000-07:002014-09-17T09:46:19.888-07:00The Way-back CuisineQuick! List ten foods you used to make/eat that you don't make/eat any more.<br />
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How many of them are used-tos because you 1) know better now, 2) can't afford them anymore or can afford better now, and 3) don't frickin' have that kind of time any more?<br />
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Most of my list falls under category 4: We don't live in France any more, and consists of my five favorite cheeses, two favorite wines, and snails. (Seriously. I used to make snails.)<br />
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But the other two things on my list are from The Grad School Years (Take One)--during the Master's degree, when money and time were short and when I didn't actually cook everything from scratch.<br />
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Hot Pockets, and ramen noodles.<br />
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Oh, how many Hot Pockets and Cup O'Noodles we took to school. How many weekend lunches were ramen noodles.<br />
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I will never, ever, EVER eat Hot Pockets again. If they were paying shoppers to take them out of the grocery store, I would pass.<br />
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But I did get an unaccountable yearning to have ramen noodles again.<br />
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They're actually pretty tasty, if you dispense with the "flavor" packet and use actual soup ingredients.<br />
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Real chicken broth, veggies (including some from our own garden), and a lovely soft-boiled egg.<br />
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Isaac had three bowls, and then asked why we didn't have ramen noodles all the time.<br />
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I, of course, answered, "Grad school." (Dave Ramsey often says he doesn't eat tuna fish, EVER, because when he went bankrupt, he ate tuna salad sandwich for lunch every day for years.)<br />
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Isaac was uncomprehending, even after I explained about the "flavor" packet.<br />
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In fact, he asked if he could add the flavor packet to his (fourth) bowl, at which point the other two chimed in and begged for the same.<br />
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Rotten little ingrates. Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-31808807199122136442014-08-31T08:38:00.001-07:002014-08-31T08:44:01.545-07:00Wake-up CallNothing will get you out of bed faster than certain sounds.<br />
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Previously, the top performer was the sound of a child retching, because, well, you know. Second place was the baby gate being pushed over, because that meant the Kraken had escaped. Sounds of potential home invasion were way, way down the list.<br />
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But we added a new one yesterday: the sound of a seven-year-old saying, "Don't worry about the ironing, Mommy! I did it while you were sleeping."<br />
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Yes, he did. A napkin, one of his brother's school shirts, and a pair of gym shorts.<br />
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The shirt looked great. And he remembered to unplug the iron when he was done.<br />
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He left the iron face down on the ironing board, but, well, singe marks don't hurt anything.<br />
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So. That was exciting.<br />
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We decided that it was past time to teach him to cook, then, since his appetite for Doing Dangerous Grown-up Things had clearly been unsatisfied.<br />
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Scrambled Eggs À La Theo it was, then.<br />
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If you want to make them, here's how:<br />
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Burn your finger a little, so that Mom remembers that people should wear shirts while cooking.<br />
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Stir gently to keep eggs from burning.<br />
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Enjoy a good breakfast with Mom.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-76210842375717383042014-08-25T06:40:00.002-07:002014-08-25T06:40:35.222-07:00First Day of ClassesWell, it's the first day of classes here at [my college].<br />
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Some cruel and thoughtless person sent me this link, and I was stupid enough to read it, even though he said it made him cry every time he read it:<br />
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<a href="http://www.literaryduckblog.org/2012/10/all-legs-and-curiosity/" target="_blank">All Legs and Curiosity</a><br />
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I've got a baby heading off to college next year. So I get it. <br />
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I've been thinking about it for seven years now, actually--right after Theo was born, and I realized, "He'll be home for ten years after his big brother goes to college. How will he manage without his big brother around? For <i>ten years</i>???"<br />
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But, anyway, I get it, Moms and Dads. I get that my students are your babies.<br />
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I don't promise to love them as much as you do.<br />
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I certainly won't be keeping up with whether or not they wear socks, although I might chastise them for using tobacco or apologizing too much or texting in class (and definitely for texting while driving).<br />
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But I promise to do right by them, and to try to help them become adults, and to want better for them than they want for themselves (and almost as good as <i>you</i> want for them).<br />
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And I promise always, always to remember that they're somebody else's babies.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-53470181252975968912014-08-23T11:06:00.000-07:002014-08-23T11:09:11.889-07:00Finished ObjectsI haven't been knitting for quite some time.<br />
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But a recent road trip provided lots and lots of knitting time, so I did get one little project done:<br />
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Of all my boys, Amos is the one to have mastered satisfying expressions of gratitude.<br />
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When I finished the first sock, I put it on him to try it for size. He got wide-eyed, put his hand on his chest, and said, "Do you make-ded that sock for ME?"<br />
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I said yes, and he said, as effusively as any child actor assigned a "thank you" scene, "Oh! THANK you, Mommy!"<br />
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When I finished the second sock, he hugged them, and then he hugged me, and he refused to take them off for the whole day.<br />
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Now, I recognize A Certain Son's genuine gratitude as expressed through a surreptitious, "Yo, thanks, Mom," and A Certain Other Son's as expressed by pestery requests for three more of whatever I've just given him.<br />
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But, you know, Amos's way is a nice change of pace.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-43121879884436994342014-08-08T09:41:00.000-07:002014-08-08T09:41:21.111-07:00What I've Been Reading This WeekThis is a long, careful, and <a href="http://theotherjournal.com/2014/07/07/scandalizing-john-howard-yoder/" target="_blank">necessary article</a>, written for those of us struggling to make sense of the life and writings of John Howard Yoder. His description of Christian non-violence is as compelling and beautiful as his history of coercion and harassment of female students is horrifying.<br />
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One of the things that particularly strikes me about this is the way our language about such interactions frustrates the victims of them. One woman, for example, told of receiving a letter from Yoder that described her body in wildly invasive personal and sexual detail--so much so that the only language she could conjure to describe the experience of reading such a letter was one of sexual violation. "I felt as if I'd been raped."<br />
<br />I myself am struggling to find words to describe her experience--at second-hand, obviously, and therefore inadequately, but without reference to violent sexual assault. She wasn't touched, she wasn't penetrated, her body wasn't forced to do anything against her will. And yet something dreadfully wrong was done to her, something that women experience far too often at the hands of men, and something that men don't tend to go through life experiencing or fearing. The legal language of harassment wasn't necessarily available during the earliest years of Yoder's career, but even today that language seems insufficient.<br />
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But using the language of actual sexual violence is problematic for at least two reasons. First, it does, I think, some injustice to women who <i>have</i> experienced sexual assault, the way it does injustice to survivors of the Holocaust to have non-genocidal situations described as holocausts. And second, it lets men give themselves permission to dismiss women's accounts of such experiences: "Seriously? You got an explicit letter and you felt <i>raped</i>? Gosh, you women sure take these things way too seriously!"<br />
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Still, somewhere between "he sent an inappropriately explicit letter to me" and "I felt like I'd been raped," there is a great yawning void in our language, and women are continually struggling against it. The absence of language to describe what sexual harassment does to its victims (and even the word "harassment" has proven wildly inadequate to the job) only helps those who commit it.<br />
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By happy coincidence, I read the above article along with this one, about <a href="http://juniaproject.com/10-ways-male-privilege-shows-church/" target="_blank">male privilege in the church</a>. The writer does an admirable job trying to put words to those experiences that do not rise to the legal definition of harassment and yet constantly hound women in the workforce. While it would have been nice to have a #11 (You will go through most of your days neither fearing nor actually experiencing inappropriate sexual or personal barrages passed off as "jokes," constant references to your sexual availability, or having a colleague "accidentally" play porn at you when you walk into his office for a meeting), it is, I hope, helpful for men to think about what it would be like to have their work constantly qualified with reference to their gender. No one ever says, "He's the best male theologian we have on staff," or "you're a really good theologian, for a man."<br />
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On the other hand, I have to say that very, very few of my experiences of being at a real disadvantage because of my sex have taken place in an ecclesial context. I felt far more vulnerable to men's beliefs and behaviors the few times I've worked in entirely non-religious, male-dominated contexts than I have in the church or in church-affiliated schools.Sarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00147041861946915728noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2255551146696196425.post-85679636666188852302014-08-01T07:59:00.003-07:002014-08-01T07:59:30.687-07:00You Should Start a List<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">. . . of all these awesome books I keep recommending for you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Also, you should thank me for pointing out which ones have upcoming movies, like <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0399162410/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0399162410&linkCode=as2&tag=homesthedocto-20&linkId=CJ3JMNCCY2D62PAY" target="_blank">The 5th Wave</a>.</i> Normally, I wouldn't write about YA fiction on this high-class intellectual website. But since Rick Yancey wrote a book that isn't insulting to my intelligence, I will give credit where it is due.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><i>T5W</i> is about an alien apocalypse. It tracks Cassie Sullivan and some surrounding characters in their attempts to survive. The aliens in this book are surprisingly less cliche and aggravating than one would expect. Their planet is apparently out of commission, so they found Earth and decided to take it. Before doing so, they need to eliminate all the humans. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">But because they need to preserve the natural world, their approach is not as simple as "blow everyone up." (No, Michael Bay, you may not direct the film adaptation.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">As you should have inferred from the title, the alien takeover takes place in five waves. The first wave is the giant electromagnetic pulse which eliminates nearly all human technology, and also kills a whole bunch of people who happened to be flying in an airplane or speeding on the interstate at an unfortunate time. The second wave dropped really large metal rods on fault lines, leading to actual killer waves affecting all coastal cities. The third wave killed 97% of the remaining population. It was a modified form of Ebola which kept the same deadly symptoms but was genetically engineered to spread far faster. And in the fourth wave, the aliens enter human bodies and replace our consciousnesses with their own; these invaders are then used to snipe wandering survivors.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">If I tell you the 5th wave, it would ruin, like, half the plot, and besides, you'll have a hard time sleeping tonight anyway. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Cheers,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Isaac </span>Isaachttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18034397920487400007noreply@blogger.com0